What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 23.06.2025 04:13

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) đ
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
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73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
65~ Describe the best orgasm youâve ever had? Care to share?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
7- Whatâs your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
17- Whatâs your favorite holiday? Whatâs your least favorite?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
What's the difference between âceâ, âçaâ, and âcelaâ, and when do I use each (French)?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
42~ Whatâs your biggest regret in life?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
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1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
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37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
3- Whatâs your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
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79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Why am I sweating so much at night even though my room is really cold?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
15~ Have you ever been âin loveâ? Who? Care to Share?
40~ Whatâs the weirdest place youâve ever had sex?
Which feels physically better for guys: vaginal sex or anal sex?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
Do you like the â69â position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
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What was the longest? What was the shortest?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Nothing too Serious
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
If yes, what?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Please share Did you stop?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
18~ Who/when was your first âcrushâ?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
The Ice Breaker Questions
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Do you prefer your partnerâs pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past⊠it got you two here togetherâŠ
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? Whatâs your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
19~ Who/when was your first âheartbreakâ?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
39~ What are your love languages?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
14- Do you have a âDeal Breakerâ, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
How many times do you think you have âmade loveâ?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
16~ Do you believe in âsoulmatesâ? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end⊠:-) some funny, some notâŠ
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
66~ Whatâs the shortest time itâs ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
How old are you? Male or Female?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
19- Whatâs your favorite fairytale? Whatâs your least favorite?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the momentâŠ
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Any that are a turn off?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
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50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
6- Whatâs your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
*** Questions About Me ***
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
3- What was the most surprising thing youâve learned about me throughout our relationship?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
52~ What are your hobbies?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Donât be shy now, I really want to know.
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
4- Whatâs your favorite genre of music? Whatâs your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJâs when you are sleeping?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
5- Whatâs your favorite movie genre? Whatâs your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
85~ If you gave me a âfree Passâ to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Any that are a turn off?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
52~ Are you willing to make âthose typesâ of bets with your partner?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
*** Random Questions ***
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
13- Whatâs your favorite drink? Whatâs your least favorite?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
14~ When was the first time you said, âI Love Youâ? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
If you win, what will you make them do?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
12- Whatâs your favorite food? Whatâs your least favorite?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Would you read them together?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
16- Whatâs your favorite vacation you have been on? Whatâs your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
Whatâs the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
1- Whatâs your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
9- Is there something youâve always wanted to ask me but youâre afraid?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
9- Whatâs your favorite season and why? Whatâs your least favorite?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
20- Whatâs your favorite candy? Whatâs your least favorite?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
I would allow you to do it⊠What would you do to me?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
18- Whatâs your favorite way to relax after a long day? Whatâs your least favorite?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything⊠Shave meâŠ
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
1- Whatâs your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
85~ If I gave you a âFree Passâ for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can âPASSâ and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship⊠You can learn a lot about the other person⊠and yourselfâŠ
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3âŠ
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Family Relation Age Play
What is your favorite position? Why?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
29- How superstitious are you?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
2- Whatâs your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
14 â Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? Whatâs your least favorite?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
92~ Everyone needs a âsafeâ word. What is yours?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?